It’s quite an accomplishment for any high school senior to earn admission to a U.S. military academy.
There are only five such schools in the nation. A congressperson, the president, or the vice president of the United States must nominate each applicant. Acceptance rates are quite low — about 8% to 17%.
Napa’s Notaro family has bested those odds — twice over. Siblings Anthony and Sophia Notaro are both attending U.S. military academies.
Anthony, 20, is in his second (or yearling) year at the U.S. Military Academy at West Point, New York. Sophia, 18, is a freshman (or plebe) at the U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, Maryland. Both graduated from Vintage High School in Napa.
“I didn’t want to take the traditional college route,” said Anthony Notaro. “I wanted to do something with my life right away, (and) West Point is an opportunity to do that.”
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The military has always appealed to her, said Sophia Notaro. “I just really like that idea of giving back and protecting people,” she said. In her mind, military college and the Naval Academy “was a really clear path to get a great education.”
The United States service academies are federal academies for the undergraduate education and training of commissioned officers for the armed forces.
Notably, U.S. military academy students do not pay for tuition, room or board. They receive a stipend for living expenses. In return, they typically agree to give five years, or more, of their lives to the military.
Anthony said that his first year at West Point was challenging in many different ways.
“You don’t really have a lot of freedom,” he admitted. “You have to follow a lot of rules,” including training, schedules, dress codes and conduct. “And that kind of bugged me a little bit, but it’s just something you have to go through.”
“I’d say first year is more challenging in terms of disciplinary things; there’s a lot more ways that you can get in trouble your first year than in your second year.”
So far his second year is a lot more challenging academically, said Anthony, whose major is computer science.
There’s less hand-holding and a much bigger course load, and the classes are certainly harder, Anthony said. “But at the same time, academics (are) a lot more interesting because you start your major classes in your second year.”
It’s also a challenge to stick to a repetitive, all-encompassing schedule day after day. “Having so much stuff on your plate every single day, that takes a toll on you a little bit,” he said. Unlike other college students, West Point students don’t have jobs off campus.
Anthony said the best part about being at West Point is his friends and peers.
“I have a very, very good friend group, probably better friends than I’ve ever had in my entire life,” he said. “There’s something about a shared experience that I think helps bring friend groups a lot closer than being in high school.”
When it came time for Sophia to apply to military colleges, Anthony said he encouraged his sister to apply to West Point as well as other schools.
With both enrolled in such academies, “I think it’s easier for us to understand what we’re both going through,” he said. “But although she didn’t go to West Point, I’m very proud of her. I think she made a good decision.”
Sophia Notaro said she was admitted to both West Point and the Naval Academy. She knew if she chose West Point she could rely on her brother for advice and support. Yet in the end, she chose Navy, in part for its track program but also because it’s located in a more populated area.
Not surprisingly, her first year at the Naval Academy has been really busy, said Sophia.
“There’s always something to do” both before and after classes, including track practice and meets, attending lectures called briefs and other first-year tasks. For example, she’s required to memorize the names of more than 100 people in her company.
Time management has been the most challenging part of her first year, said Sophia.
“I’m a big procrastinator, and I’ve had many late nights finishing homework. I get distracted pretty easily, wanting to talk to people instead of do my homework,” she admitted.
And the academics are definitely a challenge, she noted. She’s currently studying engineering. Ultimately, Sophia would like to become a naval aviator.
The best part of being at the U.S. Naval Academy is also her friends, especially those on the track team, according to Sophia.
“They’re genuinely good people to be around,” the Napa native said.
Not surprisingly, Anthony and Sophia’s parents — Marcus and Liz Notaro — are quite proud that the siblings are attending service academies.
“Growing up they both worked hard to be the best they could as students and athletes, doing so while upholding high character values and maintaining humility,” wrote Marcus Notaro in an email.
“Although it’s hard as parents to have them on the other side of the country we see it as a continuation of the path they started as youths and couldn’t be happier to see them pursuing their dreams.
“There are many things we are proud of, for sure the fact that they are continuing to challenge themselves, aren’t afraid and prefer to work hard, have chosen a path to help others, and have such high moral character while maintaining a sense of humility.”
As parents, Notaro said initially their biggest fear of having the kids attend military academies was “Are they going to be OK? Is there support for them?”
In both cases these initial fears were quickly eased, said Notaro. “They both quickly developed close friendships with their fellow cadets and midshipmen, and have had local sponsors to help them and provide support.”
Their advice to parents and students who wish to pursue this route is to do it, said Notaro.
“It is a long and very difficult process but for those who really want it, don’t give up,” he said. “The actual application process is extensive. Be aware of the deadlines beginning with your congressional nomination. In the end, if appointed, the sense of honor and joy that you feel, is beyond comprehension and worth every sacrifice that you’ve ever made.”
There are three children in the Notaro family, but youngest sister Sienna likely won’t be heading down the same path as her siblings, said Marcus Notaro.
Sienna survived a rare case of bacterial meningitis she contracted as an infant that left her with significant brain injuries and developmental issues, he explained.
“Growing up with a special-needs sister taught Anthony and Sophia unique lessons in patience, care and compassion most kids don’t experience,” he said.
“Both kids have a drive to succeed while having a sense of humility, which I mentioned, but also a desire to help and serve others above themselves which is a trait we as parents are very proud of and a trait I think Sienna helped develop.”
60 historic photos from American military history
60 historic photos from American military history
1868: Sioux Wars
1862: Abraham Lincoln at Antietam during Civil War
Philippine–American War
1915: Mexican Border War
1927: US occupation of Nicaragua
1934: US occupation of Haiti
1917: Welcoming
1918: Service for war dead
1918: Newspaper headlines on Armistice Day
1941: Attack on Pearl Harbor
1942: Battalion of army engineers
Circa 1940s: Women building a bomber
1943: Lockheed P-38 Lightning
1943: Medal of honor
1943: Sailor rescuing pilot from a plane wreck
1944: Paratroopers preparing for D-Day
1944: Operation Overlord
1944: Tuskegee Airmen
1945: Women’s Army Corp
1945: Raising the flag on Iwo Jima
1945: Marine charging during Battle of Okinawa
1945: Sharing food
1945: Leaving Nordhausen
1945: Manhattan skyline
1945: Japan surrenders
First Indochina War
Circa 1950: Bed of shells
1951: The Mighty Mo
1962: Kennedy and military leaders
1965: US combat unit in Vietnam
1965: US infantry
1965: American soldiers arriving in Vietnam
1967: US Army rifleman charge Viet Cong
1967: Soldiers engaged in long crawl to crest
1968: Soldier shaving colleague’s head
1968: Hill Timothy
1969: Naval patrol craft
1975: The fall of Saigon
1975: Evacuation
1989: US soldiers look into a prison cell
1990: Operation Desert Shield
1990: Persian Gulf War
1991: USS America
1991: Kuwaitis with American soldiers
1991: The border Kow in Saudi Arabia
1992: Intervention in Somali Civil War
2003: Oil fires burn in Iraq
2003: Families mourn soldiers killed during war with Iraq
2003: The fall of Baghdad
2005: 1st Marine division honors comrades killed in Iraq
2006: Marines return after one-year deployment to Iraq
2008: US Army battles Taliban in Kunar Province
2017: United States in Afghanistan
2014: Airstrikes targeting Islamic State group
US leaves Afghanistan
US sends aid to Ukraine
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